Small But Very Important Insights

Well, how come it is when we are tired and sick, we want to do a lot, but can't?  That’s what I’m pondering.  

My answer? 

Not sure I have an answer, but being sick and tired as I have been these last few months after my stroke has given me time to mull over some of what I have experienced. A perfect way to spend a Saturday.  

I am deeply grateful for all the prayers said for me, and the kind thoughts for me and my family. My stroke was a real surprise, and I’m sure all the prayers pleading with God for my health were answered. I thank each and every person who asked Jesus to heal me. I'm thankful to everyone who shared my need with others and kept me in mind from time to time. God has done a marvelous work. And He continues to help me with several post-stroke issues daily.

Most people want to lift another’s difficulty in some way.

I know for years I prayed for others and kept them in mind when they were sick or injured or hurting.

I’d like to simply share with you now some ways that have encouraged me these past few months – ways which are easy for anyone to do –  a phone call or text conversation can brighten a difficult day. Many times words of encouragement helped to give me a positive attitude. Postal mail is always welcome. A card or a letter can be read and reread. I'm grateful to everyone who sent one along. Catholic friends sent cards that promised prayers would be said daily for my health in the coming year. Some also sent holy cards or said they’d devote a hour of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. Gifts of flowers were up lifting.  My brother and family sent a beautiful bouquet that I could see from my bed in the ICU. And if the patient can handle a personal visit what a good way to let them know you care.   

Because my energy is terribly limited nowadays, I have had not been able to go out for coffee or tea. Just going to Mass takes most of my energy.  I have had quick visits by friends and neighbors bearing food, balloons and flowers. I'm grateful for each one. 

I'm like everyone.  I love to be encouraged and made to feel like I am wanted and important to someone. I have learned that any little thing done with kindness and thoughtfulness is a great help to someone who is hurting. 

Just thought I'd share how others brought joy into my life and courage to keep pushing forward.